How Do We Get Married in Ireland?

Your Guide to Symbolic and Legal Ceremonies

Welcome to your ultimate guide on getting married in Ireland! Whether you’re dreaming of a laid-back symbolic ceremony or a legal marriage in a cool castle, we’ve got you covered. Twin Flames offers both symbolic and legal marriages, and we’re here to help you navigate every step of the way.

Symbolic vs. Legal Ceremonies

What’s the Difference?

Let’s start with the basics. A symbolic ceremony is a fantastic, personalized event that celebrates your love, but it doesn’t have legal standing. This means that while you can exchange vows and rings, you won’t be legally married in the eyes of the law.

On the other hand, a legal ceremony follows Ireland’s marriage laws and requires the presence of a registered Solemniser. As a registered Solemniser myself, I can perform legal ceremonies that are recognized by the state. Leeona @Twin Flames Elopements is also registered to legally marry you in Ireland.

Exploring Your Options

Now that you understand the difference between symbolic and legal ceremonies, let’s explore your options.

Option 1: Symbolic Ceremony

Many couples choose to handle the legal aspects of their marriage in their home country and then have a symbolic ceremony in Ireland. This is a fantastic option if you want to avoid the complexities of international legal paperwork.

A popular idea is to have a friend or family member file your marriage license in the US or Canada on the day of your elopement in Ireland. This way, you can celebrate your anniversary on the same day every year, and you won’t have to worry about any paperwork during your trip.

With a symbolic ceremony, you have the freedom to choose from countless awesome locations across Ireland. Because it’s not legally binding, you can hold your ceremony anywhere on public lands, from a cliffside overlooking the Atlantic Ocean to a castle ruin surrounded by nature.

 

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Option 2: Legal Marriage in Ireland

If you decide to have a legal marriage in Ireland, you’ll need to follow a series of steps to ensure everything is in order. Here’s a detailed breakdown of the process:

Step 1: Contact the HSE Registration Office

Your first step is to contact the Health Service Executive (HSE) registration office. They will provide you with an application form that you need to fill out and return with all the required documentation. It’s crucial to submit this form at least three months before your intended ceremony date.

If either of you has been married before, make sure to submit your application even earlier, as you’ll need to provide additional paperwork from your previous marriage and divorce. This documentation will be sent to the offices in Roscommon for legal review.

Step 2: Submit Your Application

Once you’ve gathered all the necessary documents, submit your application to the HSE. Be thorough and accurate in your paperwork to avoid any delays. The documents you may need include:

  • Birth certificates
  • Passports or national ID cards
  • Proof of address
  • PPS numbers (if applicable)
  • Divorce decrees (if applicable)

Step 3: Wait for Authorization

After your application is submitted, it will be reviewed by legal clerks. This process can take some time, so give yourself extra time and apply at least 6 months in advance. Once your application is authorized, you’ll receive a Marriage Registration Form (MRF), often referred to as the green folder. This form is vital for your legal ceremony.

Step 4: Schedule an Appointment with the HSE

Next, you’ll need to schedule an appointment with the HSE office. This appointment should take place approximately five days before your ceremony. During this meeting, you’ll finalize all the legalities, and your MRF will be officially signed.

It’s important to note that you must be in Ireland for about five days before your ceremony date to complete this process.

Step 5: Pay the Fee

There is a fee of €220 for the legal marriage process, which is paid directly to the HSE. Make sure to budget for this expense as part of your wedding planning.

Step 6: The Big Day

With your MRF in hand, you’re now ready for your big day! Whether your ceremony is in Connemara National Park, at the Cliffs of Moher, or among the ruins of a historic castle, we’ll make sure it’s a day to remember.

Option 3: Legal Documents with Symbolic Ceremony

If you want the best of both worlds, you can choose to sign the legal documents (MRF) in the civil offices with the HSE registrar and two witnesses. After completing the legalities, you can then have a symbolic ceremony wherever you choose.

This option allows you to have a legal marriage in Ireland while enjoying the freedom to host your symbolic ceremony at any location that speaks to your heart.

Criteria for Legal Ceremonies

It’s important to note that there are specific criteria about where you can hold a legal ceremony in Ireland. Legal ceremonies must be held in a building that’s open to the public and does not charge an entrance fee. For example, hotels are suitable venues for legal ceremonies. There are some exceptions to this rule though and if you are interested in knowing more then reach out.

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Good to Know

If you legally marry in Ireland, you will receive an Irish wedding certificate. We also provide a certificate signed by your Solemniser, which includes your names and the date of your ceremony, for all ceremonies, whether legal or symbolic. You can then register your marriage in your home country if needed.

If you require additional wedding certificates or need one in the future, you will need to contact the HSE in Ireland to obtain a copy.

Additionally, it’s important to note that if you legally marry in Ireland and later need to divorce, the divorce process must also be done in Ireland. According to Irish law, you must be separated for two full years before you can apply for a divorce, which must be processed through the Irish courts.

Final Thoughts

Planning a wedding, especially in a foreign country, can seem daunting. But with the right information and guidance, it can also be an incredibly rewarding journey. Whether you choose a symbolic ceremony or a legal marriage in Ireland, Twin Flames is here to support you every step of the way.

From the stunning landscapes to the rich cultural heritage, Ireland offers a truly unique setting for your special day. So, take a deep breath, embrace the adventure, and get ready to create unforgettable memories in our welcoming country.

We look forward to being part of your love story and helping you turn your dream wedding into a reality.

If you are interested in eloping to Ireland and have any questions, feel free to contact me at [email protected] or you can fill out contact form here.

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